To write The Other Significant Others, journalist Rhaina Cohen interviewed couples around the country who have committed to sharing their lives with each other — just not their beds. These pivotal yet hard-to-define relationships have existed throughout history, but we lack the vocabulary to talk about them (let alone a legal framework to protect them). Adaam and Vanessa — platonic partners themselves — talk to Rhaina about the nomenclature that helps/hinders us, the lack of templates for meaningful friendships, and the unspoken-about-elephant in these relationships (yes, sex).
Mentioned in this episode:
-Rhaina on the Ezra Klein Show
-Our conversation about friendship infrastructure with David French
-Our conversation about solitude with Bill Deresiewicz
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On the agenda:
-On words, romance, and indefinable friendships [0:00-33:06]
-The legal difficulties platonic partners face [33:07-40:24]
-Putting marriage on/off its pedestal [40:25-47:28]
-On polyamory [47:29-53:49]
-The challenges of relationships with no defaults or templates [53:50-1:03:36]
-Friendship & solitude [1:03:37-]
Uncertain Things is hosted and produced by Adaam James Levin-Areddy and Vanessa M. Quirk. For more doomsday thoughts, subscribe to: uncertain.substack.com.
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